Author: Anthony Irtelli

  • YMCA WiSE receives funding to continue helping young people affected by sexual violence

    YMCA WiSE receives funding to continue helping young people affected by sexual violence

    We are delighted to announce that our YMCA WiSE project has received funding from the Office of the Police and Crime Commissioner for Surrey to support children and young people at risk of sexual exploitation.

    This grant from the Commissioner’s Victims’ Fund will enable YMCA WiSE to continue offering vital support for young people to cope and recover from their experiences, and to provide education and advice to guide potential victims away from harmful relationships.

    The project will receive £240,000 from the Commissioner’s Office between 2022-24 that will fund two specialist workers to provide one-to-one emotional and practical support to up to 40 individuals at risk of or affected by sexual exploitation.

    Working closely with other agencies, the service will help extend the age range for those accessing support in Surrey, providing independent support to individuals aged up to 25 years old.

    This funding forms part of the Commissioner’s commitment to prevent harm in Surrey’s communities. This includes reducing violence against women and girls, who are disproportionately affected by sexual offences.

    By committing to longer term support for YMCA WiSE in 2022, the Commissioner hopes to reduce the vulnerabilities that community services often face due to funding that is short term.

    “The grant from the Police and Crime Commissioner’s Office enables this vital support for the most vulnerable young people in Surrey to continue at a time when the impact of male violence toward women and girls is being more widely recognised and better understood, investing in essential support services has never been more needed.

    “YMCA WiSE works with under 26-year-olds and creates a safe, non-judgemental space where young people feel listened to and accepted, can start to understand the exploitation they have experienced, start to heal and begin to get their lives back.”

    Rachael Toner, Head of YMCA DownsLink Group’s Youth Information, Advice and Counselling Services & Targeted Services

    Deputy Police and Crime Commissioner Ellie Vesey-Thompson, who is leading the Office’s focus on children and young people, said: “We are really pleased to extend this important funding as part of our ongoing work to prevent exploitation and support the survivors of sexual violence. Protecting people from harm is an important part of our Police and Crime Plan for Surrey and tackling exploitation and sexual violence are some of the key factors to achieving that.

    “Both the Commissioner and I are passionate about ensuring the safety and happiness of children and young people across our county. Whilst it is important to recognise that the vast majority of children and young people in Surrey will grow up happy and healthy, those who are affected by harmful relationships deserve the specialist support that organisations like YMCA DownsLink Group can provide.”

  • 331 Years – Celebrating YMCA DownsLink Group Women this International Women’s Day

    331 Years – Celebrating YMCA DownsLink Group Women this International Women’s Day

    331 years – that’s the collective number of years the women, who will be celebrating at least 15 years of long service this year, have worked for YMCA DLG (and merged organisations). 

    And so in celebration of International Women’s Day today, Tuesday 8 March, we would love to acknowledge, all the women in YMCA DLG who work so hard to support our residents and young people whether in frontline services or indirectly, but we want to particularly honour those who will be celebrating at least 15 years of long service this year.

    Below are some of those women and the reasons they enjoy working for YMCA DLG.

    Rachel Brett, Director of Children and Young People

    I will have been working for the YMCA DLG and previous incarnations for 23 years this summer! I have remained with the organisation for so long as I’ve held roles and responsibilities that interest and excite me. I am a natural networker and I have been able to influence change both externally and internally that benefits children and young people across our geography.

    I love the fact that we are always evolving and we are not afraid of challenging situations in order to improve the lives of the vulnerable people in our communities.

    Most of all I like the people, the camaraderie and laughter which is especially important when times are tough.

    El Clarke,  Head of Quality Compliance and Participation


    I started out in client-facing work, at YAC, and I still have the same passion for the cause and mission of the organisation, even though I am much more ‘behind the scenes’ these days.  I love seeing that same passion in others.  I think the main reasons for my still being here and enjoying it is 1) the people I come into contact with across the organisation and 2) no day is the same, and I have lots of variety in the work I do!

    Angie Moon,  Project Manager (Brighton Young Families)


    My time at the YMCA has been very varied which is one of the reason I think I have stayed for so long! I started out as a volunteer at YAC and went all the way to the top, being part of the Senior Management Team for a number of years.  I’m now back on the front line working with families which I’m really enjoying, it’s a lot harder but for me the rewards are greater! The other thing that has kept me here are the people, I’ve worked with some fantastic people over the years and forged many friendships which I believe will last long after my days at the YMCA and for that I’m very thankful! 😊

    Sharon Rawcliffe,  Project Manager – Crawley & Guildford
    Jenny Burling, Projects Manager – Transitional (WS)


    We have worked together since 2004 – an everlasting friendship was created that has been filled full of laughter, sometimes sadness – nothing that cannot be fixed by a good helping of food.

    We have never wavered in the commitment to all the young people who we have worked with over the many years together in the YMCA, still plenty more years left to go!

    Val Bradford, School Counsellor – St Nicholas School


    I have absolutely loved working as a counsellor for children, young people and their families. I see it as a privilege to be allowed access to their internal world. It is YMCA Dialogue that have supported me and enabled my work to flourish and I would like to thank them for that.

    Liz Rogers, Internal Communications Officer


    For me, it’s always been about the people I’ve worked with and the cause of the organisation. I’ve worked in amazing teams with such inspirational, fun, and caring colleagues. Along with knowing the work we do makes a difference to so many lives, it’s the people that keep me here.

    Heather Robinson, School Counsellor – BHASVIC


    Happy Women’s Day! We have so many great people working for the organisation! Thank you to everyone for all their hard work and take care of yourselves too.

    Vanessa Ring, Management Accountant


    At both YMCA DLG and Eastbourne & Wealden YMCA the people I have worked with have been the best. It’s rewarding being part of a team that supports others make a difference in young people’s lives.

    Hilary Leggett, Finance Assistant


    I enjoy working at YMCA DLG because even though I don’t work directly with the Young People I hope I can help them through my role in Finance.

    I also enjoy working with many of the staff who I have got to build relationships with over my 15 years.

     

     

  • Crawley LGBTQU+ Haven Celebrates Pride Month with a funding injection from Crawley Borough Council

    Crawley LGBTQU+ Haven Celebrates Pride Month with a funding injection from Crawley Borough Council

    The LGBTQU+ Haven in Crawley was launched in April 2021 and has now been up and running at YMCA YAC in Crawley for just under a year, offering local young people (aged 11-25) access to weekly youth groups, as well as 1:1 support sessions, all facilitated by a dedicated team of LGBTQU+ Youth Workers and Volunteers. The funding for the service was due to end in March 2022 however Crawley Borough Council has awarded extra money to keep the service open until September. 

    The service was developed by the team at YAC following several years of consultation between local youth organisations and Crawley Borough Council. Young people said they were frustrated about there being no support locally and said travelling to Horsham or Brighton to access support with Allsorts Youth Project (AYP) presented a significant barrier to them accessing support.

    Safe spaces like to LGBTQU+ Haven are crucial, as we know that young people who identify as LGBTQU+ are disproportionately affected by homelessness, often caused by violence, abuse, or rejection in the family home, as well as insecure employment and mental health problems (including self-harm and suicide). Safe spaces like the LGBTQU+ Haven offer young people the opportunity to meet other LGBTQU+ young people, staff and volunteers and be their authentic self, reducing isolation, promoting positive mental wellbeing and enabling access to specialist LGBTQU+ and mental health support.

    The service was initially launched as 6-month a pilot to evidence need locally, which was made possible by emergency funding from Comic Relief’s LGBT+ COVID Fund, which we were able to access by working in partnership with a local CIC called ‘Crawley LGBT’. We hoped to be able to pass this evidence on to another local organisation, who would be better placed to access funding to run the service sustainably.

    The launch of the pilot service came at a crucial period, coinciding with a time where the vulnerability of LGBTQU+ young people in West Sussex was at its peak during COVID. In response to these concerns and in acknowledgement of the success of the project, we were awarded a further 6-months of funding via the WSCC Covid Outreach Management Fund (COMF) to continue supporting the young people engaged by the pilot. This has allowed us to continue supporting the vulnerable young people engaged by the project and has allowed more time for us to build evidence of the significant need for local LGBTQU+ support.

    As we approached the end of March 2022, we were preparing to inform the young people involved with the project that the service would be coming to a hiatus, with no further funding identified and no handover established with any local youth organisation. However, after consultation with Crawley Borough Council in early February, we were delighted to be awarded a further £5,000 by the council, allowing us to continue offering 2 group sessions per month (one session each for our Over 16’s and Under 16’s groups) until September 2022.

    We are excited that Allsorts Youth Project will begin delivering 1:1 support work from the Youth Advice Centre in Crawley at the start of March 2022 and have already begun promising conversations with AYP about them extending their group work to Crawley over the next year. We are hopeful that we will be able to arrange a handover with them over the next 6-months to ensure that the young people involved with the LGBTQU+ Haven at YAC are able to continue accessing LGBTQU+ Support in Crawley.

  • How to cope with anxiety about current events in Russia & Ukraine

    How to cope with anxiety about current events in Russia & Ukraine

    If you are upset by the news, it’s important to know that you are not the only one and it’s OK to have those feelings. It’s important to remember that being sad, worried, or angry about what’s happening in the world is okay and perfectly normal. You won’t be the only one who feels that way.

    When major events happen in the world, the media goes into ‘overdrive’; it is what the media thrives on. Endless speculation of ‘what ifs’ and ‘doomsday scenarios’ can fill our news & social channels. There can be an endless parade of ‘experts’ & historians drawing parallels with past events. For many people, the result will be increased anxiety and although concerns may be valid, it can be very unhelpful to our own mental health, on a day-to-day level.

    If it is impacting you, don’t keep it to yourself. Share your worries.

    Talk to someone

    It’s completely normal to feel worried, but if you are starting to feel overwhelmed, it’s important to notice how you’re feeling and talk to someone you trust. You could reach out to a friend, someone in the family, a teacher or a helpline (see the end of the article). Simply talking about how you are feeling can have a positive impact on anxiety.

    If you are living with us, you could talk to your project worker or counsellor.

    Don’t overexpose yourself to the news & social media

    Many of us are constantly checking the news or our social feeds for updates. This can seem like the best way to gain ‘control’ over the situation. However, the opposite is true, as it is much more likely to lead to feeling overwhelmed and anxious. Try limiting the amount of time you read or watch the news and limit updates to reputable news stories – such as the BBC.

    If you are finding it difficult to stay away from the news, try to actively plan other things to do or limit the amount of time you are on your phone. Rather than message friends, why not give them a call? Actually chatting to a friend creates a much greater connection, and so can be much more comforting. Reading, watching a film or going for a walk are all good ways to avoid news binging.

    Taking a break from social media, muting and unfollowing accounts that make you anxious, is another option. Remember, with social media you are in charge of what you see, so if you realise certain accounts (or friends) are fuelling your anxiety, mute them for a while.

    Find things that help you feel calm

    Everyone is different, so there isn’t a ‘one size’ fits all approach to finding what works for you. Some of us know what helps us stay calm, but, when we’re in an anxious state, we sometimes become our

    own worst enemies and ignore it. Instead of going for a run, we reach for a chocolate bar. Or, we try to distract ourselves and turn to stimulants like cigarettes or alcohol which can leave you feeling worse. If you have struggled with this in the past, this might be a good time to try out some new ways of ‘self-soothing’ such as meditation, yoga, simple breathing techniques or keeping a diary.

    It is also worth remembering that looking after yourself physically will make a difference to your anxiety levels. All the boring advice you’ve probably heard a million times is relevant: eat well, get enough sleep and stay physically active!

    Ideas for reducing anxiety:

    • Physical activity – go for a run (being outside/fresh air will help too) or do an online class
    • Play music
    • Call a friend
    • Read a book (try re-reading a favourite book as it can be very calming, it’s like meeting old friends)
    • Hot bath
    • Meditation/breathing techniques – lots of apps available to help guide you
    • Write down how you’re feeling or keep a diary

    E-wellbeing modules

    Our digital wellbeing service, e-wellbeing, have written some helpful modules for young people that include useful tips, advice and resources.

    Helpline services

    • YoungMinds Crisis Messenger
      Provides free, 24/7 crisis support across the UK if you are experiencing a mental health crisis.
      If you need urgent help text YM to 85258. All texts are answered by trained volunteers, with support from experienced clinical supervisors. Texts are free from EE, O2, Vodafone, 3, Virgin Mobile, BT Mobile, GiffGaff, Tesco Mobile and Telecom Plus.
    • Childline
      Comforts, advises and protects children 24 hours a day and offers free confidential counselling. Phone 0800 1111 (24 hours). Chat 1-2-1 with a counsellor online.
    • The Mix
      Information, support and listening for people under 25. Phone 0808 808 4994 (24 hours). Get support online.
    • Samaritans
      24 hour confidential listening and support for anyone who needs it (adults included). Email [email protected]. Phone 116 123 (24 hours)
  • Local translation companies support our work with unaccompanied asylum seeking children

    Local translation companies support our work with unaccompanied asylum seeking children

    We have seen an increase in unaccompanied asylum seeking children requiring our support within the last 12 months. Often these vulnerable young people arrive with nothing but the clothes on their back, so a language barrier makes things even more challenging. Thanks to the support of two local translation companies, we were able to have vital documents translated into six different languages, helping us to better support the needs of these young people.

    ABC Translations were able to provide their translation services for free and they have also joined our partnership programme for the coming year. Another local company, Transbright, were able to translate documents into three languages with a heavy discount in the cost. The support from these companies has helped us make our housing service more accessible and welcoming to some of the most marginalised and vulnerable young people in our communities. As a charity we rely on the support of our local business partners to continue our work, we estimate that these translations have saved us in excess of £8000, money we can now spend elsewhere.

    Click here to find out more about our Corporate Partnership scheme if your business would like to get involved in supporting our work.

  • Introducing The 44 Challenge

    Introducing The 44 Challenge

    The 44 Challenge – You’re invited to take part! A brand new fundraising campaign created to support a range of YMCA DownsLink Group services that aim to keep young people safe, whatever they are facing.  

    Why join The 44 Challenge? 

    Why 44 you might be wondering? Sadly, 44 is the average age of death for someone experiencing homelessness*. We work tirelessly to prevent vulnerable young people (16-24) facing difficulties from becoming part of this terrible statistic. By joining The 44 Challenge and fundraising you can help us change lives.  

    We step in to look after young people (16-24) when they are vulnerable and facing difficulties in their life. By supporting young people at this crucial stage in their lives we can prevent them from falling into a vicious circle of exclusion. We provide a range of services that aim to keep young people safe, whatever they are facing. We run Youth Advice Centres, mentoring programmes, family mediation, counselling, support for young people facing sexual and criminal exploitation, and, give those facing homelessness a safe home.  

    We need you: 

    But, we can’t do this without you. An increasing number of young people are reaching out to us for support and their needs are escalating; our services are stretched.  

    So, will you join us in fundraising and make a change that will be good for you and change the future for others?  

    How do I get involved?  

    Getting involved is easy – just follow these 5 simple steps:  

    1. Get inspired and choose any challenge or task involving the numbers 44, 4.4 or 440. 
    2. Choose whether to make a pledge and donate yourself, or, set up a fundraising page 
    3. Share your page or donate, suggested donations – £4.40, £44, £440 
    4. Smash that challenge make yourself proud & complete your challenge! 
    5. Share the love share what you’re doing with friends and nominate others to set up their own challenge or sponsor you. Do send us photos and share your updates using our hashtag #The44Challenge & @ymcadlg

    But I can’t think of an idea relating to 44… 

    No problem, we’ve come up with a pack that contains 44 ideas to do for the challenge! The pack even contains a colouring page if you’d like to get the whole family involved. Please download the pack here. 

         

    Thank you for taking part, we can’t wait to see your challenges! 

    *Source: Office for National Statistics – Deaths of homeless people in England and Wales 2020. Among men, the highest number of estimated deaths were observed in those aged 45 to 49 years. Among women, the 40 to 44 years age group had the highest number of estimated deaths.